Stella Mora | Karen | Terry Henry | LONG-TERM CARING When hospital administrator
Marriages That Work
by
Jenna Schnuer
Their varying - sometimes opposing - work schedules also affect
their parenting; they have two children, ages 13 and 15.
"Oftentimes we're single parents," says
Karen. They try to make
sure one of them is at home each weeknight, with the other at one
of the restaurants. If they both have to go to the restaurants,
they get a caregiver for the kids.
To make sure they devote some time to each other and to their kids,
they both take off from work on weekends. They also always eat
breakfast together, and if they're both working, they often leave
together in the evenings.
Despite all of the juggling, opening a restaurant together was a
no-brainer. When they were engaged, they "certainly half-joked that
we should get [the marriage] out of the way to open the
restaurant," says Karen, adding that the business "was
made-to-order for us."
LONG-TERM CARING
When hospital administrator Terry Henry got the chance to turn
around a failing long-term care facility in Culver City,
California, he immediately thought of the woman he needed to
partner with: registered nurse and gerontologist Stella Mora.
Nearly 25 years later, he's still thinking about her - but as much
more than a business partner. They married one year into their
joint venture and have been together since. "Two partners is about
as close as you can get to a marriage," says Terry, 57. The
personal relationship "was just a natural result."
Stella, also 57, says the business essentially "created the
marriage. I don't know if we would have been such good
communicators without it. Couples don't learn to sit there and
listen [to each other]."
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