Oheka Castle

The most ambitious restoration ever attempted -- according to Gary Melius, anyway. -- Heather Millar

When Gary Melius bought Oheka Castle on Long Island’s “Gold Coast” back in 1984, the first thing he did was replace the missing doors and windows that were allowing vandals and squatters to get in. Then, he hired laborers to haul 30 truckloads of garbage out of the 109,000-square-foot, once-grand mansion -- the second-largest residence ever built in the United States (the largest is George W. Vanderbilt’s Biltmore House in Asheville, North Carolina).

Now, 24 years later, with his $30 million renovation nearing completion (one Melius calls “the most ambitious restoration ever attempted”), Oheka Castle has been restored to its gilded-age glory, transformed from a onetime summer home into a boutique luxury hotel and grand, one-of-a-kind catering hall. Here’s the backstory.

A Humble Beginning
Oheka was built in 1919, when über-rich families like the Vanderbilts, the Whitneys, and the Astors were dotting Long Island with estates that mimicked the world of the European aristocracy: Italian villas, English manor houses, Celtic castles. Otto Hermann Kahn, a financier who helped shape the Union Pacific Railroad and founded New York’s Metropolitan Opera, built Oheka (drawing the name from letters in his name) for his family as a grand summer retreat. All 127 rooms of it.

During the roaring ’20s, Charlie Chaplin cavorted on the sweeping marble staircase that dominates the chateau foyer. In the ballroom, Enrique Caruso sang arias and Arturo Toscanini conducted symphonies. Eleanor Roosevelt browsed in the library. The estate’s 443 acres included a world-class golf course, one of the country’s largest greenhouse complexes, reflecting pools and gardens, a working farm and dairy, an indoor pool, a tennis court, and a horse track.

The Downfall
In 1934, at the age of 67, Kahn died of a sudden heart attack. His widow, Addie, found managing the large estate daunting, so she sold the property. Gradually, subdivisions whittled the 443 acres down to 23. The sprawling buildings endured incarnations as a retreat for New York City sanitation workers, a training school for merchant marine operators, and a military academy.

The Restoration
Developer Melius found Oheka six years after the academy had abandoned it due to bankruptcy. Drop ceilings and fluorescent lights eclipsed the grandeur. Large rooms had been subdivided and paneled walls painted. Soot streaked the walls and ceilings from fires set by vandals and squatters. School debris lay in shoulder-high drifts. It was love at first sight.

The estate’s original plans were found in a Washington, D.C., archive, and Melius began to painstakingly restore it to perfection. He tracked down the original Vermont quarry to get slate for the roof. He hired artisans to re-create the “faux bois” (fake wood) plaster finishes in the library. He hired metalworkers to spend two months cleaning, sanding, and resealing the wrought iron on the grand staircase, modeled after Fontainebleu in France. And he contracted with landscapers to dig out the eight reflecting pools and to restore the formal gardens. Not in the original layout but still planned for the near future: a spa, a private club, and a restaurant. Kahn would probably approve.


Staying There

Weddings at Oheka can run into the tens of thousands of dollars. If you’re really flush, you can spring for the $15,000 “Ultimate Evening,” complete with a string quartet, a seven-course dinner, and a “togetherness massage.” For those of less stratospheric means, overnight rates for the 32 guest rooms start in the $300s. Private tours run $25 per person. www.ohekacastle.com

  
Flight Plan

Flying with small children sparks anxiety in even the most unflappable parent. The trick to keeping your offspring calm and collected in an environment where there is absolutely nowhere to run and hide? Patience, preparation, and packing like a pro. Lucky for you, there is a spate of new gear to make your trip relatively smooth. -- Amy Tara Koch

MaxiCOOL 4 Bottle Cooler An insulated bag (with reusable ice pack) that holds four standard bottles and food jars. $13, www.rightstart.com

Panasonic Portable DVD Player DVDLS86 With two headphone jacks for private listening, a built-in battery, and up to 13 hours of playback, this is like Valium for small children. $200, www.bestbuy.com

EarPlanes Hypoallergenic filters regulate changing air pressure, eliminating discomfort while reducing noise. $7, www.onestepahead.com

Go Diego Go! Diego’s Animal Discovery Laptop from Fisher-Price Keeps preschoolers occupied in a virtual animal kingdom. Double-sided pages demonstrate letters, numbers, and animal facts. $30, www.toysrus.com

Pink Nitro Notebook Laptop from VTech This high-tech laptop is a learning tool that reads stories aloud and helps kids master math, logic, social studies, and science. $50, www.toysrus.com

Mom’s on the Phone by K’s Kids With the press of a button, your kids can hear favorite songs and prerecorded messages from Mom (and Dad). $20, www.world-of-toys.com

Ocean Wonders Portable Mobile Soft textures, music, and colors fascinate infants for hours. $6 with teether, www.fisher-price.com

Dadgear Messenger Diaper Bag Lightweight bag with a changing pad, eight compartments, exterior bottle pockets, and a wipe case. Did we mention it’s very manly? $79, www.target.com

Baby Sherpa Diaper Bag Boasts a soft-sided cooler integrated into the backpack for storing bottles, snacks, beverages, and medications; an oversize changing pad; and a padded pocket to hold a video camera or a breast pump. Fits as carry-on luggage for all airlines. $89, www.babysherpa.com

The First Years Take & Toss Variety Bag A 28-piece assortment of brightly colored cups, bowls, and spoons. $12, www.toysrus.com

Simplify travel with the handy Sit n Stroll Car Seat Stroller, which converts to a stroller, a booster seat, or a flight seat. $250, www.rightstart.com


Tip Time

To prevent volatile scenarios -- hunger, upset stomach, cooties, vomit, head congestion, and, of course, boredom -- plan, and pack, for every situation. Here’s a checklist:

• Always pack for triple the amount of the time of your scheduled flight, because there’s no drugstore at 32,000 feet. If your flight is delayed, you’ll be well prepared.

• Leave complicated, fashionable gear at home and dress your infant in a simple, snap-happy onesie that can be changed in a narrow airplane bathroom.

• To prevent ear pain, bring extra bottles and pacifiers for babies (lollipops for toddlers) to suck on the way up and down.

• For toddlers, pack at least one bribery item per 45 minutes to diffuse tantrums.

• Eradicate germs with antibacterial wipes.

  
No Prescription Required!

These unconventional desserts are just what the doctor ordered. -- Becca Hensley

1 Almond Joy Brownie
$9, Bacar, San Francisco
Bacar offers 65 wines by the glass, but why sip when you can gorge on the decadent Almond Joy Brownie? Salted caramel serves as a foundation for a two-layer delight (fudge brownie on the bottom and coconut macaroon on top) that’s glazed with bittersweet chocolate and topped with almond toffee. 448 Brannan, (415) 904-4100, www.bacarsf.com

2 S’mores Tableside
$13, Tillman’s Roadhouse, Dallas
Forget the mosquitoes! At this contemporary version of a classic Texas roadhouse, you get to cook your s’mores indoors, at your own table. The gourmet rendition of the classic dessert includes your choice of homemade maple, orange, or coffee marshmallows; cinnamon graham crackers; and dark-chocolate bark. 324 West Seventh Street, (214) 942-0988, www.tillmansroadhouse.com

3 Passion Fruit Crème Brûlée
$10, Melange, at the Ritz-Carlton New Orleans
Creole cooking meets Asian fusion in this fantastical creation by executive pastry chef Simone Fleming. A celestial layering of white lychee panna cotta is topped with ginger-infused mango and pineapple chutney, and then it’s garnished with a sweet Thai basil tuille. 921 Canal Street, (504) 524-1331, www.ritzcarlton.com

4 Decadent Dessert Flights
$2 each, Chi Bar at the Sheraton Chicago Hotel
When your sweet tooth calls, skip the decision making and try the mix-and-match dessert flights. After all, who wants to have to decide between guilt-free shot glasses filled with dreams like Strawberry Margarita, Lemoncello, Pina Colada, Chocolate Mousse, Pistachio, and Baileys Crème Brûlée? 301 East North Water Street, (312) 755-2227, www.chibarchicago.com

5 Jelly Doughnut Munchkin Holes
$8, Stack Restaurant at the Mirage Hotel, Las Vegas
Evocative of those carefree days of childhood when calories didn’t count, these lemon poppy-seed babies, drizzled with vanilla-bean anglaise, are served in their own take-home box with two dipping sauces -- chocolate and caramel. Just don’t let the sugar high go to your head when you play the slots. 3400 South Las Vegas Boulevard, (702) 791-7111, www.lightgroup.com

6 Hamburgers
$12, Keystone Ranch (and other Keystone Resort Restaurants), Keystone, Colorado
These bite-size dessert versions of the real thing may fool you -- until you take a taste. Food artist and pastry chef Ned Archibald uses vanilla cupcakes for buns, chocolate cupcakes for the meat, apricot and raspberry marmalade for mustard and ketchup, and marzipan for lettuce and tomatoes. 1437 Summit County Road 150, (800) 354-4386, www.keystoneresort.com

7 Saigon Cinnamon-Sugar-Dusted Donuts
$9, Tenpenh, Washington, D.C.
Served with dark, bittersweet chocolate pudding, these light, fluffy delights are a sophisticated twist on an old-school favorite. And while they’re the most popular way to end a meal at this Southeast Asian–inspired eatery, the donuts are so delicious, some customers choose to have them as their main course. 1001 Pennsylvania Avenue Northwest, (202) 393-4500, www.tenpenh.com

  
Touch Me

Seven new touch-sensitive devices (besides the iPhone) that let you poke and play -- Scott Steinberg

1 Touch Cruise, $730
Scroll, browse, and activate functions with a tap, or enjoy the built-in TomTom GPS navigation capabilities via the Smartphone’s stroke-ready, 2.8-inch color screen. Sifting through photos (3 MP camera included), web pages, and business contacts is also a snap. www.htc.com

2 Harmony One, $250
Logitech’s king of universal remotes allows you to control more than 225,000 devices without blowing a fuse. Its 2.2-inch, prod-friendly monitor has raised buttons and an idiot-proof interface that lets you do virtually anything -- save shave and shower -- without leaving the couch. www.logitech.com

3 EasyShare V1273, $280
For the money, amateur shutterbugs won’t find a more elegant solution for snapping, reviewing, cataloging, and (mercifully) enhancing digital photos. Adjusting brightness levels and hue saturation on the 3X-optical zoom, 12 MP camera is as easy as jabbing your finger at the intuitive interface on the three-inch LCD display. www.kodak.com

4 N2, $860
The first true competitor to Apple’s iPhone, Neonode’s attractive two-inch screen responds instantly to pushes and tugs, letting you speedily navigate menus and programs with nary a thought. The integrated 2 MP camera and music- and video-playing features also prove a plus for those looking to dial up a little entertainment. www.neonode.com

5 Nüvi 5000, $857
Easy viewing and painless navigation take precedence in this 5.2-inch-display-equipped unit, designed to keep you from swerving every time you glance over for directions. Voice-prompting, the ability to save up to 10 routes, and the option to play MP3s, audiobooks, and games via an integrated wireless FM transmitter also ensure a smooth ride. www.garmin.com

6 Everio GZ-MG360B, $550
Effortlessly capture baby’s first steps -- or your college graduate’s celebratory walk -- with JVC’s svelte 680K-pixel hard disk camcorder, which offers a hands-on scroll bar for easy, interactive navigation. With its 60 GB of storable video, you’re guaranteed not to miss a thing. www.jvc.com

7 WiBrain-B1, $699
Prices aren’t the only things shrinking on computers these days. Case in point: a 1.15-pound, ultramobile PC that’s still blessed with a 60 GB hard drive, a 1.2 GHz CPU, and an alluring 4.8-inch screen that you won’t be able to resist groping. Windows XP compatibility, wireless connectivity, and webcam features are awesome extras. www.dynamism.com

  
  
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