Home. I have been in the military for over
24 years. It is my life. I've traveled around the world - Europe,
Asia,
Africa, the
Middle East, and other areas. But all that
travel, to places that many would describe as exotic, has never
included the wonderful or popular locations depicted in your travel
montage. As I thought about your essay question, my thoughts turned
to my wife and family. My chosen profession, service in the U.S.
Army, has caused me to be away from home more than I've been there.
Having missed so many birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, first
dates, first time driving a car, death of a beloved pet, etc.,
there is no place like home. Home, for me, has been and remains my
foundation, my touchstone, and, in many ways, that exotic popular
destination I look forward to visiting as often as I can. - Allen
Batschelet, Harker Heights, Texas
Blue Pumpkin. It's my favorite café in Siem
Reap,
Cambodia. It had the most amazing mango smoothie I have ever
tasted, and as soon as I sat down, a waiter materialized with a
cool, white, peppermint-scented facecloth. In a country so humid
that a minute outside causes even your eyeballs to sweat and the
dust from the street to stick to your skin in a damp red film, the
small pleasures at Blue Pumpkin were a welcome respite. I was in
Siem Reap for a brief pilgrimage to
Angkor Wat, an ancient Khmer
temple complex considered one of the most intriguing and beautiful
sets of ruins in the world. But even pilgrims must eat, so my daily
routine included an early breakfast at Blue Pumpkin. On my final
morning in Cambodia, as I sucked down my smoothie, a very young man
swathed in bright saffron robes appeared at the café's entrance and
stood silently, head bowed. A slender teenage waitress sprang off
her stool, returning a minute later with a bulging grocery bag of
food. She placed it in his hands. Without a word, she kneeled,
bowing her head to the young monk's feet. He blessed her and then
turned and walked quietly down the street. The waitress rose and
strode quickly back to the kitchen. Glass frozen in midair, straw
poised, I caught myself staring and looked down, but my mind was
buzzing. Did the monk come every day? Where did he go next? Was
this scene repeating itself in cafés all over town? Compared with
the shooing away of the steady trickle of beggars at the door, the
respect - not to mention the
food - given to the monk stood out.
When I looked up again, the noisy bustle of the street had consumed
the silent void where monk and waitress had been, and the moment
was gone. The bright colors of that scene, the monk in orange, the
waitress in black and white, the food, the silence, the solemnity,
the rote familiarity with which they played their parts - I still
think about them. I have since read and learned more about the
importance of Buddhism and Buddhist monks in
Southeast Asia. The
scene at Blue Pumpkin was a sliver of tradition in the middle of a
country - in the middle of a continent - in flux. … But that one
moment in Blue Pumpkin was timeless and beautiful, and I would give
anything to go back. - Jane Lindholm, West Hollywood,
California